Q. I am single – how will these classes work if I don’t have a partner?
We’ve found that a significant part of the healing in any relationship is self-healing. Thereby, learning and practicing these techniques now will allow you to be that much further ahead once you choose to embrace a relationship. Many of the Tantric techniques we teach are for the individual, such as breath, sound, movement, and visualization. Through exploring these techniques while honoring your body through self-touch, self-massage, and self-pleasuring, you’ll be more open to experiencing multiple orgasms or even full-body orgasms.
Q. How much does a session cost?
The fee for each of our services is based on a hourly rate. Please refer to Contact Us for specific hourly fees.
Q. What is sexual energy and where does it come from?
Sexual energy, life force energy and kundalini are all the same and they all come from within your body. Tantric practice has us come fully into the body to know the bliss of feeling, so that we can open up to knowing ourselves as divinity. Attempting to go for the expanded spiritual experience without knowing the body is a little premature and why individuals often get stuck in their spiritual development.
Q. Where do I start?
If you have specific concerns that you would like to address, we recommend individual tantric sessions, as these give you the greatest opportunity for a personalized experience. If you are new and curious to find out more, come along to a Tantric Meetup Group, which is a social evening held monthly in Vancouver and North Vancouver, where you have the opportunity to try some light-hearted and fun tantric practices with tantric beginners and advanced tantric devotees.
Q. Can these classes help me if my partner isn’t interested in attending?
Definitely! Sometimes our partners may not be ready to embrace these teachings at the same time we choose to. However, just by learning and practicing this knowledge ourselves we can spark the interest of our partner. The best way to reinvigorate a relationship is to begin to give more intimacy from our side – then the gifts will begin to flow.
For instance, we had a female client who brought her experience back home into the bedroom, and her partner quickly became interested and came to learn himself. There’s nothing like experiencing firsthand greater intimacy in a relationship.
Q. Is it a religion?
Tantra can become a way of life; however, it is not about giving you rules and expectations to guide your existence. It is about knowing yourself more fully, so that you have the freedom to move in alignment your natural energy and inclinations. What you do with Tantra is entirely your choice – it can be something you practice for better and longer lasting sex, or it can become the pathway for your spiritual opening.
Q. How can experiencing Tantra help me if my relationship is in trouble?
When a relationship is in trouble, this is often the time we start looking for help. Since Sacred Desire is a beautiful process of opening to the flow of the Divine, you allow yourselves to be more conscious and aware so that real clarity and communication can occur about issues in your relationship.
Sometimes we just lack the proper skills or tools to work through issues of intimacy. Or we just need to heal wounds to open our hearts to the love we truly desire. For example, I’ve found the Tantric Nurturing Position to be a simple, yet profound technique for couples to harmonize their moods and energies, especially after an argument.
Q. I have experienced a lot of sexual impotence in my life and am ashamed to share that. Does that mean I need a private healing session?
When it comes to sexuality there are times when concerns and issues may arise. We welcome the sharing of these concerns and will completely honor your privacy.
As for the need of a private healing session, it all depends on what you want to achieve. For sexual impotence, often there are emotional issues that block the flow of energy, inhibiting one’s ability to fully respond to sexual stimulation. Through a sacred healing session these emotional issues can be released and the flow of energy restored. However, sexual issues may also be accompanied by physiological factors. Therefore, it’s always advisable to seek proper medical advice.<
Q. What if I don’t feel safe during a Sacred Tantric Healing session? Am I free to not fully participate at every moment?
Yes. A Sacred Tantric Healing session unfolds entirely according to your choices. You will be encouraged to choose only those aspects of the session that are most desirable and comfortable. We are there to totally support and gently guide you through the journey.
Remember, if negative issues arise, such as fear, abuse, abandonment, it is an opportunity for releasing and healing these deep-seated traumas, emotional wounds, or negative thoughts surrounding your sexuality. You will feel more free and open once these shadows are released by gentle loving intention.
The workshop is an interactive space and is designed to take you on a journey, the more you participate the greater the benefits.
Q. How does a man learn to last longer sexually?
Through Tantra, a man can learn to develop his internal awareness so that he maintains a constant level of arousal and presence, allowing him to stay in the sex without ejaculating. The techniques we use at Tantric Bliss are less about control and forcing the situation and more about inner awareness.
Q. If I am a woman who has never had an orgasm before, how can you help me?
A woman’s natural state is orgasmic bliss, it is just that we live in a world where this has been repressed. Through workshops and sessions, we work with women to restore this natural state, using breathwork, bodywork, movement and awareness practices. Women are receptive and magnetic in their feminine essence, so what can happen is that women will open up to an experience simply because she heard another woman talk about it and absorbed the essence of the other woman’s experience. This is the beauty of the women’s workshops, particularly when women give themselves permission to fully express themselves in the space.